Friday, March 7, 2014

Finish the Sentence Friday

This is my first time participating in Finish the Sentence Friday.  I'm always looking for inspiration and look forward to future Fridays.




What I really want to scream out loud is…….

Grow up!! 

No, not to my kids; they’re doing that far too quickly already.

I want to scream it at my ex and his girlfriend who can’t seem to figure out how to resolve the issues that they are having with The Boy.  They are the adults here and need to take the first steps.  He’s willing to try; now they just have to step up……... (yeah, I’m a little stressed about this; can you tell?)  This is getting dangerously close to bad-mouthing (or perhaps even a toe over the line) so I’ll step away from this one now……. quietly backing away……

I want to scream it at the celebrities and quasi-celebrities who behave like juvenile delinquents with booze, drugs, lewd acts and just plain disrespectful behavior.  Unfortunately, as long as we, as a society, keep on giving them attention and making excuses for them, their behavior will not change.  I mean, really, Rob Ford, Toronto’s drunken, crack-smoking mayor, was flown to Hollywood for the Oscars and an appearance on Jimmy Kimmel!  Nobody in the States would even know who he is if it weren’t for his horrible, immature behavior.   

I want to scream it at the trolls out there who think that it’s okay to hide behind the anonymity of the internet and hurl abuse at others.  I’ve seen a couple of instances of it recently and it really boils my blood.  Don’t get me wrong, I think that the internet is a great place to express ourselves and take part in lively discussion but when you use that as an opportunity to judge and insult others and just generally be rude, it’s inexcusable.   If you don’t agree with what someone has said on their blog, Facebook, Twitter, etc., a mature grown-up has two choices:  politely express your own opinion while respecting others’ right to express theirs or just walk away.  There is a place for everybody on the internet.  If you don’t like what you’re reading, one simple mouse click takes it out of your sight.  I promise they won’t chase you!

I want to scream it at the dumbasses on the road, who should never have been issued licenses, who believe that they are King of the Road.  Pedestrians have the right of way and are no competition for a couple of thousand pounds of steel.  Please be mature and don’t make us play chicken with you.  It’s a game we can’t possibly win.

Let’s all be mature grown-ups, play nicely with each other and be good role models.  It’s really not all that hard.


Finish the Sentence Friday

Kat

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Wordless Wednesday

(snapshot from my cable/internet/phone bill)



3658

The number of texts The Boy sent in January

It's a record

Thank goodness we have unlimited texting on our plan!



Kat

Monday, March 3, 2014

Finding new authors

Back at the beginning of the year, I came across this list of 16 Books To Read Before They Hit Theaters This Year.  Some fo them I had heard of but others were new to me.  I tend to go for mysteries, thrillers and some fantasy/sci-fi but decided to stretch my wings and pick a few books off this list for my own reading list.

The first one that I have read is Jonathan Tropper's This is Where I Leave You.



This novel is told from the point of view of Judd Foxman who has come home to sit shiva after his father's death forcing him and his siblings and their spouses to all be in the same house for seven days - something that hasn't happened in years.  The fact that he is newly separated from his wife who he caught cheating with his boss only adds to his distress.

This story makes you laugh, cringe and nod in understanding at the emotions that play out in this sometimes (okay, often) disfunctional family.  The scene where he discovers his wife's infidelity had me both laughing and cringing at the same time. The back of the book says it's about "love, marriage, divorce, family and the ties that bind - whether we like it or not" and I think that it's bang-on.

In the course of a week, the Foxman family probably learn more about themselves and each other than they ever would have in a year on their own.  Some grudges are resolved, secrets learned and many injuries result.

I genuinely enjoyed this book and am glad that I took a chance on an author (and genre) that I otherwise might not have discovered.  I enjoyed it enough that, when I received an emailed newsletter from iRewards (Chapters/Indigo) suggesting his book The Book of Joe, I decided to pick it up.  I'll let you know how that one goes when I get to it.

Just a note, those newsletters with "suggestions" and deals are so totally evil! I keep getting sucked in....

Kat


Sunday, March 2, 2014

We have a winner!!

As the title suggests, I am happy to announce that we have a winner for my first giveaway!

Congratulations Leslie O'Donnell!!

Leslie will soon be receiving a package with her very own copy of The Last Snowman as well as wonderful swag from JC Little (The Animated Woman) , Dot & Lil and Boiron.



Thank you to those who dropped by and those who commented.

Kat